Do Not Disturb episode

Kate Moyle on why we are all doing sex wrong

Psychosexual and relationship therapist Kate Moyle joins Simona for a practical, nuanced conversation about desire, intimacy, communication and the myths that make modern sex harder than it needs to be.

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The conversation

Kate Moyle brings a therapist's clarity to one of the least honestly discussed parts of adult life: sex inside real relationships. This episode looks at why desire changes, why communication can feel so loaded, and how couples can rebuild connection without shame or performance.

The conversation moves beyond easy advice. It asks what happens when intimacy is shaped by exhaustion, motherhood, pressure, comparison and the quiet scripts people carry into relationships.

Why it belongs on Do Not Disturb

Do Not Disturb is interested in the private reality beneath the polished exterior. Kate's work sits exactly there: the gap between how people think sex and intimacy should look, and what actually happens behind closed doors.

This page is for listeners looking for a grounded episode on desire, bodies, communication, emotional safety and the kind of intimacy that can survive real life.